Share Service Applications Across Farms - MySite

Hi,

I have problem getting this to work. I have two Sharepoint farms in different domains. This is how the farms looks.

1. Publishing farm

Sharepoint 2010 on Windows 2008 r2.

2. Consumer farm

Sharepoint 2013 on Windows 2012.

There is a forrest domain trust between farms and open for all ports.

I have followed instructions from this document http://mrhodes.net/2010/05/19/publishing-service-applications-between-sharepoint-2010-farms-part-1-8/ (user profile service application instead of Metadata service application)

In step 6 of part 2, I am supposed to get a url, like here below

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 But  I  get no url, and completed with no errors

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Clik here to view. When connection to remote service is completed, I should be abel to take properties on it and get option to configure it like this

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Option for properties and permission is grayed out and lokks like I do not have permission.

I am looking at this from the consumer farm. I have a confirmation from the publishing farm administrator that everything was done correct and no errors there, and the consumer farm administrator has been granted full permission on porfile application.

pls adv,

thanks

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